iPhone Bitcoin wallet that can connect to your node

I’ve played with Fully Noded, but it is not the most stable of wallets.

Is their a well developed iPhone Bitcoin wallet that you can connect directly to your own node?

Tor is great, but it’s a heavy protocol and slows everything down.

I use Tailscale VPN to access my node(s) remotely (including my iPhone) so using this connection would be my preference.