Two separate problems. LNBits does not hold a config, it deletes when you click away and go back it’s gone. Why? Bug?
Nostr relay…it gives a private LAN address umbrel.local:4848 but you can’t use that in your nostr client when you are not on your home network.
They say use tailscale magic dns…I had that working a month ago…but something deleted my damus config and I don’t recall how to setup the server in damus.
Too confusing.